…伤疗来起了躲是只我
各位，好久好久不见噢…
对啊，我只是躲了起来疗伤…
大家都知道我失恋了，其实也还好啦，这种事情天天都在世界各个角落上演，我不是第一个遇害的，也不会是最后一个，只是伤口需要比较长的时间愈合。比起我的遭遇，世界上还有更多更不幸的人与事，我的这点伤痛其实微不足道。虽然是微不足道，但是这一段被严重背叛和精神折磨的爱情，留下来的伤口和后患，却并不渺小……
挺traumatised的……
这个考验是给我和那个不堪回首的他的。老天要我们用自己的智慧去做选择、去handle他所设计的这个chaos，但是最终的结局，我想老天还是比较偏心我的嘻嘻…… 虽然看起来输家似乎是我，但是现在是谁待在恶魔身边呢？总之就不再是我了！(’-’ )
经历了这场重创，反而让我意外的发现自己原来比想象中还要强、还要优秀噢！以前总觉得自己笨笨蠢蠢的，可是在这次“受灾过程”中竟然发掘了连自己都很惊讶的性格特质，现在我敢大大声地说 “我是宝石~”！！！
虽然一度被误认为是石头而遭到丢弃，但是那些被错当为宝石而被选上的石头，日子应该也过得战战兢兢吧？*giggle*
分手后就是考验风度和涵养的时候了。虽然我的内心到现在根本就无法原谅，也始终感觉有口气咽不下去，但是嘴上我没有去bitch。我反而不吝于用自身的经历和领悟，去帮助身边有需要的人走出阴霾，这么做让我感觉很富有。
我默默忍下的委屈… 我独自吞下的眼泪… 我咬牙扛下的伤痛，都是为了交换在前方等着我的，我真正的幸福吧？
而当我靠到他身边的时候，我想我已经蜕变（“修炼”?! 哈哈）成最美好最精致的自己了。
好的东西是不会那么轻易就被得到的，反过来想，如果我努力让自己变得更好，除了能吸引好的人向我靠拢，最后也只有最好的男生才有机会（“资格”?! 我好拽哈哈）得到我吧？对啊！女生应该这样想啊，那么努力让自己变得最棒，怎么可以草率的把自己交托到随便一个男生的手上啊？哈哈哈…… ( ‘-’)
我！！！好想谈恋爱！！！ 要勇敢、义无反顾的再爱一次！！！
August 10th, 2009 at 2:27 pm
Sinhuey jiayou! One day you’ll find your love! You’re good!
August 10th, 2009 at 7:32 pm
要勇敢 Sin huey ,wo men yong yuan zai zhe li!!!
August 11th, 2009 at 12:51 am
这就是所谓因祸得福吧~~
人生本来就是一场场的考验，过得了关的就会练成金刚不坏身神功！
August 11th, 2009 at 8:47 am
“分手后就是考验风度和涵养的时候了”
我很同意这句话~
爱，
要耐心等待，仔细寻找。
祝你可以遇到更好的男人~
August 11th, 2009 at 11:26 am
欣卉,要堅強喔!這世上還有佷多愛你和支持你的歌迷!永遠是我們的女皇!! ^^
August 11th, 2009 at 1:29 pm
cheers and 寻找真正的幸福~~!!!
August 11th, 2009 at 3:20 pm
加油。。。我也刚经历了一场非常严重的爱情背叛。对方还是我的同事。不过，我也有同感。我已远离恶魔了，天使将会出现。
祝你可以遇到更好的男人~
August 12th, 2009 at 12:49 am
You will find your happiness! Go go Queen!
August 12th, 2009 at 1:28 pm
欣卉，要加油！
你可以找到跟好的男人!
!寻找真正的幸福
加油！
August 12th, 2009 at 4:13 pm
失败的爱情就当着是上天给你命中的考验。
别气馁，重新站起来。勇敢地走下去。
你得真名天子会有那么一天找上门的。
祝你早日恢复心情。=）
August 16th, 2009 at 2:24 pm
欣卉, learning to let go is a release to yourself.
Time will be the healer. Continue to improve in your singing career, remember your fans are always there for you! —-’<@
Cheers!
Gil
August 16th, 2009 at 4:31 pm
欣卉,你是大家心目中的偶像不能那么轻易被打倒。虽然失败的爱情让你很痛，但是我相信你是最强的！Kambateh!! =D
August 17th, 2009 at 9:36 am
你好坦白哦。。。就赤裸裸的写给大家看。。。
August 17th, 2009 at 2:19 pm
Hi 欣卉,
That’s the spirit, girl!
Stand up and live for yourself!
One day you will meet the right person.
When that day comes, you will know.
Cheer up and live!
August 18th, 2009 at 9:32 am
Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.
August 28th, 2009 at 6:24 am
欣卉… the world doesnt stop, life still moves on
i am glad to see what you have wrote here. Things happen for a reason, whether its good or bad depends on how we think about it.
Compared to me, you are far more luckier. At least you found out before you got married with him. I been with this man since 18yrs old for 11 yrs, get married and before i give birth to my girl, i found out that he betrayed me. For more than half a year i been doing all my best to salvage this family, to give in everything just hope that i can provide a complete family for my girl. There was once i want to give him up, but he ask for a last chance and i gave him the last chance without any conditions. But… a leapard doesnt change it spots, he still prefer to be with that “lucky woman” (whether lucky or not, time will prove it rite?). And now, i had left him with my gal. She is only 8mths old now, there’s still long way to go though sometimes i do felt sad for her for having such a daddy, but maybe me & my girl is the lucky one to have left such a man. Such man doesnt worth us to feel sad further rite?
Now i see things differently… I take it as what i owe him, maybe in the past life & I repaid him off. I learnt to overcome all these nonsense…. And am still learning on how to forgive him, to let go, and… my most important task now is to be a gud mummy
People out there… no one is indispensable, there’s still friends & family who loves us… Treasure what we have & live to the best.
September 14th, 2009 at 1:46 am
You are so brave and is not easy at all to accept the betray of the relationship. Think of this it actually inspired u to write a better lyric because you experience what other dont. You grow ur wisdom…. JIAYOU, in fact while i brokeup with my ex bf your song sing exactly how i feel, i feel so touch by your song.
You are a Gem, talented singer!!!!! hope you find your Mr right soon.